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The Good Manners Gift Guides (2023) Full Collection
The Good Manners Gift Guides are thoughtfully curated gifts designed to delight and inspire kindness, connection and, of course, good manners.

The 2023 Good Manners Gift Guide: For the Classic Gentleman
NEW THIS YEAR! Introducing the Good Manners Gift Guide for the Classic Gentleman. Each item on this specially curated list is designed with the discerning gentleman in mind. You’ll find a mix of items with the intention of helping you shop for every important man in your life.

The 2023 Good Manners Gift Guide: Little Luxuries for Her
These gifts are sure to delight the classic, sophisticated woman in your life (or perhaps yourself!). These little luxuries made for beautiful gifts and stocking stuffers and are suitable for both friends and family.

The 2023 Good Manners Gift Guide: Royal Enthusiast
Do you have a friend who often refers to her friend “Kate”? Did you notice she picked up a preference for oat milk lattes despite being totally tolerant of dairy? She’s like a Royal Enthusiast - and these Duchess-approved gifts are destined to make her feel like the most important princess of all.

The 2023 Good Manners Gift Guide: The Intentional Hostess
These gifts have been thoughtfully curated with the intentional hostess in mind. These gifts are for the friend who always has an open door and an open heart. Her love language is coffee, charcuterie boards and deep conversation. You feel instantly comfortable when you walk into your home and you want a gift that will reflect your appreciation of her thoughtful attention to detail.

The 2023 Good Manners Gift Guide: Well-Mannered Kids
These classic toys and books make learning manners fun. Thoughtfully curated to encourage social-emotional learning and development, these beautiful gifts will keep kids off the screens and instead immerse them in imaginative play, self-reflection and open their eyes to a world of possibilities.