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Details & Decorum

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Whether you’re looking to host a memorable gathering, navigate social nuances with confidence, or simply infuse your daily routine with a touch of elegance, you’ve found your home. Subscribe today and discover a treasure trove of thoughtful advice, inspiration for embracing everyday elegance, and practical tips that will help you curate a lifestyle steeped in sophistication and charm.

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Courtney Opalko

Founder, Details & Decorum

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Cultivating Kindness: How to Create a Kindness Garden to Teach Lessons of Respect, Awareness and Community

Now is the perfect time to gather your little ones, roll up your sleeves, and begin to plant the seeds of kindness together. Learn how to plant a Kindness Garden, activities to incorporate to teach children important values, and see our own Kindness Garden in action!

Courtney Opalko 5/31/25 Courtney Opalko 5/31/25

MAY 2025: An Elegant Month in Review

Join me on my journey to make 2025 the most elegant year yet. I’m sharing a look at personal moments and reflecting on the elegant experiences I enjoyed this month.

Courtney Opalko 4/30/25 Courtney Opalko 4/30/25

APRIL 2025: An Elegant Month in Review

Join me on my journey to make 2025 the most elegant year yet. I’m sharing a look at personal moments and reflecting on the elegant experiences I enjoyed this month.

Courtney Opalko 4/21/25 Courtney Opalko 4/21/25

Chicago with Kids: The Ultimate Travel Guide (2025)

Planning to visit Chicago with kids? Save this Ultimate Travel Guide for where to eat, stay and go to enjoy a fantastic long weekend trip to Chicago, IL.

Courtney Opalko 4/16/25 Courtney Opalko 4/16/25

Henry MASTERED His First Year! Let’s Host: A Masters Themed Birthday Party

Whether you’re celebrating a milestone birthday or planning to gather friends for a Watch Party, I’m sharing everything you need to host a Masters Party as look back at Henry’s 1st Birthday Party! You’ll find inspiration for food, decor, style, and etiquette tips that will help you host like a (golf) pro!

Courtney Opalko 4/10/25 Courtney Opalko 4/10/25

The Masters: A Tradition of Etiquette & Good Manners (Updated 2025 Edition)

Patrons of The Masters are required to adhere to a strict code of conduct. Learn more about the tradition of etiquette and good manners at The Masters golf tournament and find inspiration for celebrating at home.